This was one of those epic shoots where we pack as much fun into two or three days as possible—from Ryan and I making sushi, antics at popular tourist attractions, and interviews that culminated on the red carpet. I was so excited to be in Japan—it was a dream of mine as a kid—and interviewing them for their latest movie about the massively popular Pokémon franchise brought out a childlike giddiness.
That day, I discovered the art of developing a better interview experience for everyone involved.
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Start from a place of respect.
I have watched plenty of interviews, and I usually can tell when the interviewer is not invested in the subject matter.
For the record, I know when a producer or the person coordinating the interview is not invested either. It becomes a bit of an act at that point, which is truly unfortunate, especially since professional actors can sense bad acting. Many people who have worked in the entertainment industry have taken classes to bring out whatever is on the inside of them, and whatever is on the inside of the audience. After years and years of this, they can be experts on nonverbal communication and body language, and they have been coached to be subtle and to be aware of subtlety.
In a very deliberate, yet delicate way, I initiate conversation at a high level of respect, and my interviewees sense that. When I sit down with a celebrity, I see them as an expert or a genius of their craft who has done something very few people will do in their lifetime. All of this is coursing through my mind ahead of every interview, and it is pouring from me in the way that I ask each question.
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Identify what someone else could be going through.
I take every interview seriously. There are some questions that you cannot help but ask again because they are crucial to the story of the movie or project. I have learned what is more important is how you ask the questions.
When I interview actors, specifically, I consciously consider how much money was spent on a movie. I think about all the writing, directing, and production of a screenplay. I put myself in the shoes of the crew and staff and imagine the years these actors have taken to reach the point in their careers where they can lead a film. I think about how intelligent and determined different actors are, and how they hear so many rejections before they get to their big break. I consider how the actors might have had some less-than-fun experiences with interviewers and how many times they get asked the same question, over and over again.
This is empathy, the ability to consider and identify with what someone else could be going through and not to make any judgments.
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Think of every interview as an experience instead of a performance.
Conversations allow for a friendliness not present in a standard Q&A. Not only do you ask questions of the person across from you, but they start asking you questions. Reciprocity is evidence of shared interest, and interest often comes by empathy, which is imagining what it is like to be in the shoes of the person you are talking to. It leads to much more interesting questions.
Kathryn told me that I asked them questions they usually don’t get asked during interviews.
I have watched the video of our chat numerous times to remind myself of things that were said that were a real encouragement to me! It was not just about getting a good soundbite.
At one point during our interview, Kathryn turned to me and asked, “What’s your dream?” This was kind of her to ask, and proof that the interview was truly a conversation because she reciprocated by being genuinely interested enough in me as a person to ask a question herself.
The hat, so to speak, of the interviewer and interviewee can go away once you truly decide to interact.
It was a fun experience, and it was kind of them and their team to not just get the shot with us and leave. We had a great opportunity to have a chat with substance inside that Robot Restaurant!
What you can learn from meaningful interviews
From our conversation, I learned more about Ryan, Kathyrn, and Justice than you’d find in any tabloid. We talked about who we all were as people and the experiences that shaped us. We talked about…
- How much hard work being in the industry is, giving up time with friends to be there for the early calls, long days, and travel.
- How grateful the actors were because they had come to a place where they had some sense of knowing how fortunate they were.
- How acting did not even seem like a job anymore
- How success came in imagining what would happen if they did not get paid; they would still be doing what they loved.
No matter what kind of interview you are scheduled to have, you will stand out if you do not just go in to perform. Go in with the purpose of making it an enjoyable experience for everyone involved. Your interview will move from conversation to connection when you desire for it to be a mutual win-win.