“Elayne Fluker is the real deal and truly a force of nature. Her journey and story are those of a champion for self-love, self-empowerment and the reclamation of energy. Elayne’s writing feels like brunch with your best friend and a breakthrough therapy session all beautifully rolled into one grounded, raw and insightful book. Get Over “I Got It” is a complete game changer and no doubt a book every goal-oriented woman should read at least once.”

—Maya Penn, Award-winning CEO, Eco-Entrepreneur

“As a superwoman in recovery myself, I suffered the tyranny of the ‘independent woman’ trope for too many years. Elayne Fluker’s Get Over “I Got It” was the book I needed all that time. Elayne lays out a simple step-by-step pathway for tempering our ambition and drive with the more feminine superpowers of vulnerability, receptivity and softness—to magical effect. Reading this book, you’ll discover how to ask for what you want (and deserve); see that burnout is avoidable and that it’s possible to keep your tank full; understand the value of surrounding yourself with a network of supportive women; and so much more. My friends, it’s time to trade the myth of independence for the promise of healthy interdependence—and Get Over “I Got It” shows us how.”

—Kelly Notaras, CEO of KN Literary Arts and author of The Book You Were Born to Write

“I’m thrilled and heartened to see books like Get Over “I Got It” being published. We’re all burned out (and quite frankly bored) by the old-school mindset of ‘hustle harder,’ ‘lean in’ and ‘grind it out.’ Elayne nails the concept that rest and support are a source of strength, not weakness—and the dire (if not deadly) consequences of ignoring this sage advice. A must-read for womxn of all ages and life stages.”

—Martine Resnick, Co-Founder at The Lola, "a womxn's club and digital community"

“In her book, Get Over “I Got It,” Elayne Fluker hits the mark by showing the strength of being vulnerable and calling in the support you require. The time of dysfunctional independence is over. Our world is changing, and to have true success we need to be able to step outside our comfort zone and share our unique gifts and talents. We do not need to be good at everything, but we do need to get good at asking for help and guidance.”

—Barbara Biziou, Transformational vision coach and author of The Joy of Ritual